No pain…lot’s of gain

No Pain No Gain... this phrase has driven me for years… actually, it has driven me most of my life… until not long ago.

I truthfully believed the best of my intentions as I lived life using terms as“warrior of light”, “overcoming challenges”, “learning through hardship”…. and the universe was wonderful to me: it ensured I lived those experiences! Duh!

I am no longer a warrior of light, I am a peace torch bearer if at all! I now longer live to overcome challenges, I live expecting my experiences to sprout from the light of love and compassion.

At first I had to watch the words I chose to reflect my reality but now, I know that No Pain No Gain is not necessarily true. Yes, for sure, I did learn through pain, and I did get ahead no matter what, but I have learned that results can show up from BEING rather than DOING. 

It wasn’t easy for me to grasp that concept. It was simple enough that my mind understood it, but not easy for me to encompass it.

But I tried…. no pain no gain was “hard to let go” 🙂 ha ha

The New Earth paradigm does not request pain from you. It requests your joy, it is asking to step up to embrace your soul’s desire and to put forth a life where you live joyful and fulfilled through following your passion.

It is a completely new way of living life. It is a NEW PARADIGM and sometimes I watch how difficult it is for many to believe in this.

It has been many years under the “dream” of “no pain no gain” to let it go and believe that we can live rich lives of love and fulfilment by being who we are, by contacting our souls and living life under a new set of rules.

I see you.
I see your perplexed looks.
I see you as you work through old paradigms.
I see you as you let go of beliefs that no longer serve you.
I see you as you remember yourself.
I see you as your recap what are your passions.
I see you as you take courageous steps to show up with your gifts.
I see you as you overcome a belittling mind to remember your worth.

I see you becuase I have been there.
Seeing you is seeing me, that is why I CAN SEE YOU.

And I send love, and compassion, and understanding… and I believe in you.

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Shine Bright!

Valerie Bottazzi

Soulful Business Coach

3 Keys to Manifesting

Have you watched the 40 year old movie “Close Encounters of the 3rd type”?

I have just watched it again yesterday evening and was awed at how a 40 year old movie can still be so amazingly wonderful and how “avant-guard” it was in its time. If you get a chance make sure you watch it, I guarantee that in the least of cases you will have a 1 and a half hour of fun entertainment!

If you have seen it you will understand me when I say I am obsessed with “torus” or “toroidal” images. They come to me when I dream, when I am awake, when I meditate, when I drive, when I take a shower, just like the main character of the movie I receive a clear message.

The message for me is a heightened amazing awareness that my emotions creating my torus at all times is powerful, just like my thoughts, my words and my actions are, in manifesting my reality.

My energy is flowing at all times in a toroidal form and interconnecting and interweaving with the subtle and material world around me.

So yes, in simple terms “manifesting” is the ability to convert the energy of our thoughts into a newly materialised form.

And the way to learn how to manifest is to start small, with simple things.Begin with one intention at a time so you can learn how to manifest and create anything in your life.

What are the 3 key things to start manifesting?

These are:

  1. Clarity
  2. Cultivating the feeling
  3. Taking action to support the feeling

The key is that manifestation works through the feeling side of the equation. You attract whatever you feel. So if you feel something different than what you are thinking you want to manifest with your mind, then it is your feeling that will be reflected back to you and not your thought.

See how fundamental this is? If with your mind you are willing to manifest a lover but in your emotional side you are afraid to be alone, it is the aloneness that will be manifested.

Ahhh…. So here is the first key. CLARITY. Clarity is number 1 so you must CLEAR the space and the intention. Clear your energy flow, clear it from any pollution created by the dysfunctions or disharmonies of your chakras and subtle bodies.

This is why you can benefit from this mini-coaching program I am launching right now. It has  8 hours of powerful lessons to CLEAR away old limiting beliefs and 9 half hour visualisations to heal these energies and energy centres (chakras).

The importance of manifesting from a clean and clear space is paramount.

The second point is cultivating the FEELING. Being in touch with how it is you want to feel as if the manifestation is already present in your life. Having a clear focus and then detaching from how the outcome is going to happen is fundamental.

Know what you want but don’t be focus on HOW you want to get it.

As I wrote above, it is the feeling more than the thought what creates reality. So for example if you want to feel love and romance make sure you love yourself; if you want to manifest money, make sure you are respecting your money by paying your bills, honouring your debts and ALSO allowing yourself to enjoy the money by indulging when possible.

Finally, nothing will be manifested if you just sit there willing for “it” to magically appear in your life. By being in alignment, by creating a clear space in your mind’s eye and heart, then the third key is that you must take inspired action to support the feeling.

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Here is to your success manifesting. Don’t underestimate your power. Take action today and start by aligning your subtle bodies and clearing up old beliefs.

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Shine Bright!

Valerie Bottazzi

Soulful Business Coach

Dream Catchers

I have a fancy for “dream catchers”

I don’t know what it is, maybe it is a memory from past lives, maybe it is just how pretty and soothing they seem to me.

However, dream catchers remind me of the importance of dreaming big, of making desires out of those dreams and of taking those desires and forging them into a plan with goals followed by inspired action.

Sometimes referred to as “Sacred Hoops,” dream catchers” originate within the Ojibwe Native American tribe and were considered as a talisman to protect their people while they slept and to protect children from nightmares.

Their shape usually consists of a small wooden hoop covered in a net or web of natural fibers, with meaningful sacred items like beads and feathers hanging down from the bottom of the hoop. Real authentic Native American dream catchers are crafted only from natural materials and handmade. I have read that the hoops used to be made from a bent Red Willow branch covered in stretched sinews and then having the frame wrapped with leather.

Dream Catchers are made in a circular form because the circle represents the cycle of life and are symbolically encompass the forces of nature such as the sun and the moon as they move rhythmically day and night across the sky.

The Native American tradition believes the night brings over dreams both good and bad, therefore, dream catchers were hung above the place where one sleeps ensuring that the morning sunlight can hit it.

The function of the “dream catcher” is to attract and catch dream thoughts, both good and bad, into its web. The feathers would allow for the good dreams to pass through and gently slide down towards the sleeper below in order to give comfort. The “spider-web” would catch the bad dreams and through its protective net it would destroy them allowing for the morning sun light to burn them as the light would catch it.

Are ready to dream big and make your dreams happen?

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Sweet dreams my friend!

Shine bright,

Valerie Bottazzi

Soulful Business Coach

Align your Life with your Soul & Purpose