6 Powerful LOVE Affirmations

I am a firm believer in the power of mindset work, mindfulness, affirmations, and mantras to support our manifestation and transformation. Rewiring our brains to transform our beliefs is one of the many ways in which we influence our co-creation.

Prior to going to the hospital for my surgery, I did a lot of mindset work connecting with my body, preparing mind and body for the surgery, so the body could be ready to receive and accept the prosthesis and everything that came with the surgery. I did a lot of affirmations about it all of it being okay.

And it has been!

I have used affirmations successfully in my life to “re-wire” my mind on many beliefs I wanted to transform. Today I am sharing with you a few LOVE mantras so you can transform your beliefs about love.

Enjoy them!

The point is to say them out loud many times a day, to write them in your journals, to feel them and embody them often for at least 100 days.

  •  I am open and receptive to all the love life offers me. I love this mantra as a starting point because it is an invitation for love to come into your life. You are informing the Universe that you are ready to and open to “receive”.
  • I am surrounded by love. What you focus on is what you get more of. With this affirmation you ensure you focus on what you HAVE versus what you don’t have..
  • I deserve love. Too often we sell ourselves short believe we don’t deserve what is coming or even what we have because of profound traumas that have us believing we are “unworthy”.
  •  I live an abundant life. Abundant life as in everything! Love, relationships, family, health, wealth.
  • My dreams are coming true. Dream, desire, set goals and ACT upon them. If you are taking inspired action then this more than an affirmation is reinforcing a fact.
  • Thank you. Gratitude is a big door opener for everything we want to manifest and more so with love. Always add thank you for …. adding the things you DO have and you are grateful for. Thank life, thank the people in your life, thank YOURSELF!

Lots of love and light!

Valerie Bottazzi

Love Coach & Healer

Are you AWARE of how amazing you are?

 

Are you AWARE of how amazing you are?

I am not kidding and this is not a catch phrase.

Seriously, how tolerant are you being with not getting what you desire?  It is time you become intolerant with delayed results!

Can you allow yourself to take responsibility for everything that is happening in your life? You are truly such a powerful creator, that every single thing present in your life, is a creation of yours, either by desire or by contrast, by love or by fear. 

I know this is a hard truth to swallow but this acceptance comes also the realization that you have all the power to create what you WISH!!! ONCE you allow yourself to let go of the limiting beliefs that are holding you back, once you are able to see how fear is stopping the flow of love, you open up to receive love and fulfillment.

Learn, accept, remember that the Universe is not trying to punish you. The Universe is not putting you through some resistance trial. On the contrary, the Universe WANTS you to succeed. The Universe wants you to be the most beautiful being you can be!

You must be available to take in all of who you are, light and shadow, so that you can see how the energy of fear and love play act in your daily choices. There are only to ways, love and fear, the problem is that sometimes we are not able to acknowledge nor distinguish the fear energy in our choices. Our ego is fearful and subtle playing games with us so that we think we are choosing love but we are really not doing so. 

YOU HAVE LIMITLESS POWER, TAP INTO IT. You are made of the same substance as God and the Universe.

Can you relate? If you can, then let have a chat so I can support you in your journey to love.

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Love and light!

Valerie Bottazzi

Love & Success Coach 




“If your daily life seems poor, do not blame it; blame yourself that you are not poet enough to call forth its riches; for the Creator, there is no poverty.” [Rainer Maria Rilke]
 
 

I love my life

“I love my life.

I love who I have become.”

These are the two first sentences in my journal this morning.

As I was writing them I realized I wanted…no cancel that! I NEEDED to share this with you.

I couldn’t have written this a couple of years ago. I have come a long way. I have gone through the in-famous” dark night of the soul, and I have been transformed, forged like iron under fire; because fire has been… and water, and wind, and earth.

I am such a different person than I used to be. What I like has changed, what I enjoy has changed, what I do has changed, what I eat has changed… but there is one thing has hasn’t changed: my essence.

I have remembered who I am. I have removed layers of the ego, layers of the mask I had built to “protect” myself. Don’t get me wrong, I am by no means a “finished product”. However, I am at a stage in my life where some important rocks of the foundation of who I am are now sturdy and clear.

A fundamental part of my metamorphosis has been honoring myself and making sure I have my “sacred time” on a daily basis.

This is my favorite time after waking up. I honor my soul, my mind and my body. I meditate, I journal and I exercise. I will fight for this time now, I will ensure I find it no matter how early I have to get up to have this space.

My candles, my silence, my “mate”, my wall-staring time, my journal and, here and there I pull out a “magical dimension cards”, for fun!

This is what I wish for you as well, that you may honor yourself. I wish for you that you can do what makes you feel good, that you manifest what you desire, that you get the love your yearn for, that you your eyes open in keep child-like wonder throughout life.

This is why I have started my weekly training series. I want to be of service. I want to help you find that space and that healing that will make you tell the whole world that “you love your life”.

You can save your spot for next week HERE.

Love and brilliance!

Valerie Bottazzi

Love and Success Coach

 

What is a soulmate?

What is a soulmate?
 
I am sure you’ve heard many say they’d like to find their soulmate, but do we know what a soulmate really is? And how does it differ from our twin flame?
 
A soul mate is a person for which your soul is attracted to their spiritual essence, we could say they are our perfect match. Contrary to common belief, soulmate relationships, are not necessarily harmonious. However, if you embrace love and the challenge a soulmate brings on, you will both live the experience of a deeply nourishing relationship. 
 
The purpose of a soulful relationship is to ensure your partner expands and lives life in the best version of them. As a soulmate, your mission is to nudge your partner to extend beyond their comfort zones and your mission is to hold the vision for your lives as a couple lived at the highest level.
 
Soulmates are attracted by our radiant essence and passionate commitment to our soulful purpose. Living our lives in a soulful relationship means that we will be cheered along as we stretch and leap beyond our upper limits. A soulful relationship is one where the attraction is at the level of the soul, the mind and the body, this type of relationship can be challenging at times but always rewarding and fulfilling. 
 
There tends to be a lot of confusion about what a “twin flame” relationship really is. Unlike soulmates which are part of our spiritual family (as I mentioned above, our perfect match), twin flames are our perfect mirrors. 
 
Relationships with twin flames tend to be on-again-off-again, intensely passionate, and sometimes intensely painful. While relationships with our soulmates tend to be in service to a higher spiritual intention and if both souls “remember” the agreement they did before their incarnation, the relationship may be joyful and fulfilling.
 
It is common to get a tingling feeling or a sensation of déjà vu when we meet our soulmate and our twin-flame for the first time, so make sure you keep your antennas up and your awareness on…. And don’t worry about missing out as we make more than one agreement to ensure we live up to our soulful purpose.
 
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Love and light!

Shine bright!

Valerie Bottazzi
Love & Success Coach

PS: I invite you to book a “Breakthrough to Love” call with me. During our “Breakthrough to Love” session, together we will explore what is keeping you from attracting your desired love;  you will come away knowing the #1 thing you can do to start attracting your soul mate today! BOOK YOUR CALL NOW

“A soulmate is someone who has locks that fit our keys, and keys to fit our locks. When we feel safe enough to open the locks, our truest selves step out and we can be completely and honestly who we are; we can be loved for who we are and not for who we’re pretending to be. Each unveils the best part of the other. No matter what else goes wrong around us, with that one person we’re safe in our own paradise.” [Richard Bach]

Why is it so difficult to practice self-love

 

Hello there,

Today I was inspired to do a video about

“Why is it difficult to practice self-love?” 💜❤️and as a consequence

“Why is self-love so important? 🙌”

I hope you enjoy it!

 

 

Wanna have a good chat? 💙💎

Here is the link I mention in the video.

During our FREE “Breakthrough to Love” session we will explore what is keeping you from expressing your inner feminine essence and you will come away knowing the #1 thing you can do to start attracting your soul mate today.

BOOK A “BREAKTHROUGH TO LOVE” call with me now

Lots of love!
Shine bright! 👑💄😱🌟

Valerie Bottazzi

Love & Success Coach

5 Steps to Fire Up your relationship

 

I hear many of my clients share with me their deep suffering because they love a partner so completely that they give and have given them their all…without getting what they need and desire in return.

Yes, they suffer because their partner doesn’t reciprocate; on the contrary, they keep taking, and asking for more and taking more, leaving them depleted, hurt and addicted to hope.

Let’s look at this situation from a new perspective and give you some empowering tools to dive deep into this pain and turn it aroundI invite you to journal and dialogue with your partner following these 5 steps.

STEP 1: Ask yourself the following questions

·     Am I standing in my Queenly power, fully and completely?
·     Am I in love with MYSELF fully and completely?
·     Do I accept and love myself first and foremost?

Once you know the answer to these questions do your inner work to make sure the answers are YES for every single one. Journal, write your own mantras, do the work!

STEP 2: Clarity (Clarity is always in there somehow isn’t it?)

Ask yourself what do you want from your partner?

·     Physical presence
·     Love
·     Seeing you
·     Being in his/her power
·     Supporting you in your power
·     ……..   complete your own list here

STEP 3: Love your partner enough to guide them into their inner inquiry

·     Does your partner have a sense of self?
·     Does he/she knows what they want from their life?

As a Queen, it is your task to guide your partner into self-inquiry with direct, clear and open communication

STEP 4: Acceptance and understanding

Acknowledge the dynamic that is going on here and practice presence.
Take action based on what new information comes up.

* Does the relationship need nurturing?
* Do you need to ask for what you want in a clear way?
* Do you need to stand in your power?
* What is needed to bring on joyful communication and light up the fire of love?

STEP 5: Closing empowering question

If you realize that your partner does not want, or is not ready to change his or her ways, you must ask yourself a courageous question:

What are you doing with a man or woman that is not fully available for you?

I am aware that following these 5 steps is not necessarily easy. It is my task to guide you on an inner journey of self-discovery to live the best version of your life. This is why if this message resonates with you, I invite you to book a free “Breakthrough to Love” call with me. Together we will explore what is keeping you from expressing your inner feminine essence so you can come away knowing the #1 thing you can do to start transforming your love life today.

BOOK YOUR CALL NOW

Love and light.

Shine bright!

Valerie Bottazzi
Love & Success Coach
 

“Love loves to love love.”