What is your biggest “hunger”?

What is your biggest hunger telling you?

What is that fire burning inside? Are you listening?

Are you yearning for love and connection? Then let’s do something about this! Let’s go for it! What are you waiting for?

Stop playing the victim.
Stop playing small.
Stop staying in hiding.
Stop pretending you are a fragile doll.
Stop HURTING.

What is it costing you to stay in a place of hiding, hurt and fragile?

Are you ready to take the leap and go for passion? Embrace your power? And truly open up to true love?

I guide women to get ready for love again, and you know what? I love what I do, but I realize it is not only a one on one job. The more of us, women, that connect with LOVE, with our gifts, and are ready to love, the more we can guide our men into the energy of true love.

With our sacred feminine love, we can guide and help men connect with their sacred masculine and heal old karmic wounds freeing them as well to live more balanced lives and allowing their emotions to have a large space in their lives.

I believe that both as women and as men, as we connect with love and get ready for love, we truly impact the world. It sounds like big words, but they are not. It is as simple as the imagery of a drop in the ocean. Yes, a drop is small, but there would be no ocean without drops. The same is true for a grain of sand in a desert.

Love and light!

Valerie Shakti Bottazzi

Love Coach & Healer

I love my life

“I love my life.

I love who I have become.”

These are the two first sentences in my journal this morning.

As I was writing them I realized I wanted…no cancel that! I NEEDED to share this with you.

I couldn’t have written this a couple of years ago. I have come a long way. I have gone through the in-famous” dark night of the soul, and I have been transformed, forged like iron under fire; because fire has been… and water, and wind, and earth.

I am such a different person than I used to be. What I like has changed, what I enjoy has changed, what I do has changed, what I eat has changed… but there is one thing has hasn’t changed: my essence.

I have remembered who I am. I have removed layers of the ego, layers of the mask I had built to “protect” myself. Don’t get me wrong, I am by no means a “finished product”. However, I am at a stage in my life where some important rocks of the foundation of who I am are now sturdy and clear.

A fundamental part of my metamorphosis has been honoring myself and making sure I have my “sacred time” on a daily basis.

This is my favorite time after waking up. I honor my soul, my mind and my body. I meditate, I journal and I exercise. I will fight for this time now, I will ensure I find it no matter how early I have to get up to have this space.

My candles, my silence, my “mate”, my wall-staring time, my journal and, here and there I pull out a “magical dimension cards”, for fun!

This is what I wish for you as well, that you may honor yourself. I wish for you that you can do what makes you feel good, that you manifest what you desire, that you get the love your yearn for, that you your eyes open in keep child-like wonder throughout life.

This is why I have started my weekly training series. I want to be of service. I want to help you find that space and that healing that will make you tell the whole world that “you love your life”.

You can save your spot for next week HERE.

Love and brilliance!

Valerie Bottazzi

Love and Success Coach

 

    How to open up to unconditional LOVE?

    It is time for a “love upgrade”.

    No matter how good you have it or how you wish you had love in your life, today I want to remind you to open up to unconditional love.

    Allow yourself to overflow with unconditional divine love allowing others that are supportive in your life into your heart more and more. Unconditional love is at the core of the heart chakra, and as you expand in love it becomes a love portal.

    The heart is capable of giving to yourself and others abundantly while also being able to receive freely, and both, giving and receiving can’t exist without one and the other.

     

     

    Today is the perfect day for you to up-level your self-love. It is time to truly love yourself, fully and completely from the highest levels of honor and purity, so you can prepare for an expansive “love upgrade” as you attract what you give yourself.

    Be open and receptive to love and loving from your unique self and soul to and from others and brace yourself, because the journey you will embark on is one of endless love and fulfillment beyond limitations!

    Love and light!

    Shine bright!

    Valerie Shakti Bottazzi
    Love Coach & Healer
    PS: Are you ready to expand your capacity to give and receive love? If your heart and soul are saying YES then book a “Love Breakthrough” call. It is free and it is a diagnostic call where we will explore the things that are holding you back from self-love and true love. 

    “The only way love can last a lifetime is if it’s unconditional. The truth is this: love is not determined by the one being loved but rather by the one choosing to love.” [Stephen Kendrick]

    Why is it so difficult to practice self-love

     

    Hello there,

    Today I was inspired to do a video about

    “Why is it difficult to practice self-love?” 💜❤️and as a consequence

    “Why is self-love so important? 🙌”

    I hope you enjoy it!

     

     

    Wanna have a good chat? 💙💎

    Here is the link I mention in the video.

    During our FREE “Breakthrough to Love” session we will explore what is keeping you from expressing your inner feminine essence and you will come away knowing the #1 thing you can do to start attracting your soul mate today.

    BOOK A “BREAKTHROUGH TO LOVE” call with me now

    Lots of love!
    Shine bright! 👑💄😱🌟

    Valerie Bottazzi

    Love & Success Coach

    5 Steps to Fire Up your relationship

     

    I hear many of my clients share with me their deep suffering because they love a partner so completely that they give and have given them their all…without getting what they need and desire in return.

    Yes, they suffer because their partner doesn’t reciprocate; on the contrary, they keep taking, and asking for more and taking more, leaving them depleted, hurt and addicted to hope.

    Let’s look at this situation from a new perspective and give you some empowering tools to dive deep into this pain and turn it aroundI invite you to journal and dialogue with your partner following these 5 steps.

    STEP 1: Ask yourself the following questions

    ·     Am I standing in my Queenly power, fully and completely?
    ·     Am I in love with MYSELF fully and completely?
    ·     Do I accept and love myself first and foremost?

    Once you know the answer to these questions do your inner work to make sure the answers are YES for every single one. Journal, write your own mantras, do the work!

    STEP 2: Clarity (Clarity is always in there somehow isn’t it?)

    Ask yourself what do you want from your partner?

    ·     Physical presence
    ·     Love
    ·     Seeing you
    ·     Being in his/her power
    ·     Supporting you in your power
    ·     ……..   complete your own list here

    STEP 3: Love your partner enough to guide them into their inner inquiry

    ·     Does your partner have a sense of self?
    ·     Does he/she knows what they want from their life?

    As a Queen, it is your task to guide your partner into self-inquiry with direct, clear and open communication

    STEP 4: Acceptance and understanding

    Acknowledge the dynamic that is going on here and practice presence.
    Take action based on what new information comes up.

    * Does the relationship need nurturing?
    * Do you need to ask for what you want in a clear way?
    * Do you need to stand in your power?
    * What is needed to bring on joyful communication and light up the fire of love?

    STEP 5: Closing empowering question

    If you realize that your partner does not want, or is not ready to change his or her ways, you must ask yourself a courageous question:

    What are you doing with a man or woman that is not fully available for you?

    I am aware that following these 5 steps is not necessarily easy. It is my task to guide you on an inner journey of self-discovery to live the best version of your life. This is why if this message resonates with you, I invite you to book a free “Breakthrough to Love” call with me. Together we will explore what is keeping you from expressing your inner feminine essence so you can come away knowing the #1 thing you can do to start transforming your love life today.

    BOOK YOUR CALL NOW

    Love and light.

    Shine bright!

    Valerie Bottazzi
    Love & Success Coach
     

    “Love loves to love love.”