What’s your part?

I can’t stop listening to this song this morning, I am including the video below so you can listen to it too; it’s called Glorious by One Voice Children’s Choir.

As I finished my morning ritual, my meditation, my prayers, and my sacred time journaling and channeling, this song kept “singing” inside my head and I knew I had to share it.

2020 started on a tumultuous foundation of political upheaval with superpowers versus middle east playacting and the Earth “literally” on-fire! I have learned the hard way that we can’t help transform what is going on by focusing on the disaster since energy flows where focus goes. The more you watch the news and you see images of war, fires, and devastation, the more you are calling in exactly the thing you want to go away.

The Universe answers to feelings. Emotion is the language of creation. My Spirit Guides are leading me to do my part by guiding YOU to call in YOUR life mission and support you as you start living it!

We MUST rise-up and do what we came here to do NOW. There is no more time for doubts, fear or playing small. If you know you are being held back by thoughts such as: “who am I to create big change”, or “I am just one person I can’t change things”, or “I don’t know if I have it in me”, or any other inner dialogue that is keeping you frozen, held back and unfulfilled, PLEASE reach out, contact me, share what is going on for you. If you know what you need please tell me so I can support you and if you don’t know what you need let’s talk and figure it out together. Here is a link to book a “Purpose Activation” free call so we can do just that.

I invite you to light a candle and set an intention to live a life of purpose, magic and meaning before you watch and listen the video-song below. I have listened to it many times this morning and every time it brings tears of joy and empowerment to my eyes and it lifts my heart.

Purpose, Love, Grace and Light,

Valerie Shakti Bottazzi

Life Coach & Healer

 

“The meaning of life is to find your gift. The purpose of life is to give it away.” [IMO, Emerson]

 

It’s not too late!

The New Year is here, heck, the New Decade is here, however, you are still on time to set high intentions for the new journey!

There are 3 practices I use and coach with to help prepare yourself for a powerful time.
I recommend you do all of these, as described below, in one sitting. Take at least 1 hour of time, create a sacred place where you sit down with your journal and connect within with the following guidance.

1. Release The Old. If you haven’t done it yet. The idea is to re-visit with your thoughts the decade we have just left behind, and in more detail the year 2019. Think of what topics, things, areas and people, are stopping you from living the best version of yourself. With intention release them, bless them, and send them in to the light knowingly choosing to leave them in the past.

2. Honor What You Did. Now make a list of 50 things you accomplished during the past year. YES FIFTY!!! Believe me, you have. They can be small or big, but they must be at least fifty. This exercise will leave you with a sense of accomplishment. We tend to forget how much we have done.

3. Set High Intentions. Finally, think about those things you want to create, those people you want to connect, reconnect, guide and be guided by and with, those events you want to live, and those things you want to transform. Honor what you have already done, those relationships you want to enrich, and visualize, think, feel and write it all down!

These 3 steps will make you enter this new decade with a feeling of possibility, joy and empowerment. It will connect you with YOUR unique vision and gifts helping you bring forth the maximum from yourself and into the world.

Begin today creating a big wonderful container to live your best ever decade of your life!

Valerie Shakti Bottazzi

Life Coach & Healer

“People tend to overestimate what they can do in 1 year and underestimate what they can do in a decade.” [Tony Robbins]

Love is the Answer

The Answer is Love!

 

Remember when John Lennon used to sing “love is the answer”?

I know, it is trite, and overused, BUT…. LOVE IS THE ANSWER TO ALL.

Think of this for a moment.

Whenever you feel down because somebody has hurt you, the way out is to give love back.

If you received envy and aggression, yup, you’ve got it, the way to heal YOUR wound is by sending love back.

When your heart has been broken, the way to mend your heart is loving the one who hurt you…

When someone, anyone, has done something that has left you feeling down and broken, the answer is…. Love. You’ve got this.

There is a caveat however and I am going to share this key aspect with you.

I learned from Boddhisatva Fukyo who lived more than 800 years ago a fundamental aspect of answering with love. Around the 1200ths when Buddhism was in a downfall period, people would be aggressive towards those following the Buddhist path to enlightenment. Whenever someone would speak ill of Fukyo, curse him or throw stones at him, he would move to the side to avoid the stones while leaning towards the aggressor, and hands in prayer he would say “I have profound reverence for you, I would never dare treat you with disparagement or arrogance, because I can see the Buddha within you.”

Isn’t this a beautiful anecdote? This story tugs at my heart because it explains very clearly that learning that love is the answer doesn’t mean to “turn the other cheek”. This is not about submission or loving when what you desire is to respond back with similar energies such as hate, revenge, spite or other responses.

Responding with love means protecting oneself from the aggression and the aggressor (as in moving to the side to avoid the stones) BUT understanding that we are all ONE, that we are all a vessel of Source energy. It is about healing ourselves and learning that loving back is the only way to freedom.

I love a good conversation and this subject might create strong opinions in you which I’d love to hear about. Please write to me any time. CLICK HERE to write to me!

Lots of love and light,

 

Valerie Bottazzi

Love Coach & Healer

 

“I believe that imagination is stronger than knowledge. That myth is more potent than history. That dreams are more powerful than facts. That hope always triumphs over experience. That laughter is the only cure for grief. And I believe that love is stronger than death.” [Robert Fulghum]

Testimonial “Carol Bartomeo”

To have Valerie as a coach and healer was a unique experience that left me empowered.

When I started the coaching process, I was at a turning point in my life, in which I had been released from my job (I was a teacher for 25 years), I had just closed a 25-year-old relationship with my husband and I was starting a new phase in life with my two teen daughters. To begin with, I knew I had to focus on my life Mission but I didn’t have a clue on the “how to do it”. In addition, I also had to process some deep experiences concerning my fears as regards love and success. I felt I was at a loss.

A process with Valerie is not just any coaching process; it is a holistic experience in which she walks beside you and shares all her knowledge and tools for you to go deep inside you and feel reborn with all you need to stand by yourself. She is generous enough to share all the material she has developed, for you to nourish from it. She has so many tools to help you make the best of your healing journey that it is a fulfilled promise of your success in the end and you enjoy it as well.

She was always available when I needed extra help and she accompanied me a 100% in different ways: sending me supporting material, energy healing, channeling messages from my Guides, and much more in a loving, caring and safe atmosphere always protected by our Divine Teams. She helped me align and focus, state my goals with clarity and go for them step by step, letting me empower myself on the way and encouraging me to trust. “Your time now is like Indiana Jones”, she said. “Move one step at a time and trust that the path will show up”

At that moment, I remembered the movie: “Only the penitent man will pass. The penitent man kneels before God. The penitent man is humble before God.” I have done nothing wrong, that was clear. I had left guilt aside, with Vale’s help I cared for my inner child and I recognized I am worth loving. Thus, it was not fair to call me a “penitent” woman, as Indiana Jones said.

So I provided my own version: “Only the aligned woman will pass. The aligned woman kneels before her own path because she surrenders to its sacredness and trusts she is at the perfect place to evolve. The aligned woman is humble before herself, she is aware of her strength and goes for everything she deserves with vision, love and passion.”

Carol Bartomeo

Coach & Healer, Mano Azul

Praise by Marina Jackman

I had some unresolved feelings and wounds related to my past, my family, and especially myself. I was concerned because I didn’t think I was ready to explore those issues, and I didn’t think I had the extra money to invest in myself. However, I am very glad I said yes to Valerie’s coaching.

Through our time together Valerie helped me in establishing my life & career goals, she guided me as I overcame hopelessness & overwhelm getting me past some mental-blocks while gaining confidence working through my mindset. Valerie helped me get clear about who I am and what I want in life; she gave me useful tools that I can now use whenever I’m feeling helpless, lost, or frustrated and she further helped me understand why I was acting in a certain way helping me heal patterns so I could reset myself in a more positive and loving way.

Since I finished with Valerie’s program I feel more confident, I understand what I want and where I’m going with more clarity. I’m not scared of bad things happening because I understand that I have the power over my way of behaving and thinking. I am more than grateful and I now understand the power of manifesting what your soul really desires.

I particularly appreciated the possibility of speaking freely and not being judged at any point. I felt like I could speak without any restrictions and that helped the process become more authentic and significant.

The 3 biggest benefits of working with Valerie have been:

1) Being in a judgment free zone

2) Getting many tools to help me cope with the different issues/emotional blockages I now recognize and

3) Being able to revisit previous conversations

I would absolutely recommend working with Valerie. She is a warm and authentic person with many years of experience in different businesses and spiritual fields, which make her a holistic coach that can help you in many aspects of your life journey. No matter what you have going on, from business to inherited family traumas, she can see and feel beyond words and help you get to the bottom of what you are experiencing to heal those deep emotional scars. I did the 6-month program and it completely changed my life, now I have the tools to understand my behaviors, and modify them in a healthy, loving way. It’s not magic, it’s hard work, but having Valerie by your side to guide and help you get through your fears, frustrations and emotions is a wonderful experience.

Marina Jackman

Digital Project Manager