What exactly is a life purpose 🔥🔥🔥

What exactly is a life purpose?

So many times we use this term, we speak of finding it but, are we clear of what it would feel like and be like when we do?

There is a Harvard study published in May 2020 that says that we NEED a higher purpose in life to feel our lives have meaning AND that if you believe your life has meaning, it could potentially be longer.

There are actually countless clinical studies that show that having a “greater purpose” dramatically increases the length and quality of your life. Yet, it is alarming how many people at this time report that they don’t know what theirs is.

It does not matter how smart, conscious, creative, talented, and tuned in you are, if you are not clear about what you are meant to be doing now and why you are here on this planet at this time, you will be feeling off-kilter and you will go about life feeling like something is missing.

Life purpose is defined differently by different people, however, as a spiritual teacher, coach, and healer, I have learned that knowing your life purpose means you have aligned your passion with your dreams and your goals.

When your passion is in line with your dreams and goals then your behaviors and your actions will naturally be aligned with your values. As a result, you will feel on-purpose AND you will feel fulfilled with an inner knowing that what you do matters… that YOU matter.

I believe that living our purpose is ultimately connecting with our higher self or inner divinity and listening to its guidance you will gain clarity on all of the above.

What I find in my work is that many people are struggling to go inside, to honor time to connect with the whispers of the divine within, and thus can’t receive the golden messages for themselves. Your inner knowing speaks in a really soft voice, therefore, we must be able to quiet our minds to listen accurately.

Not knowing what your purpose is will have you going about life sabotaging your ability to unlock your full potential and manifest what you most desire in life!

So why is it so difficult to gain clarity on OUR OWN purpose? It’s ours so we should know right? Wrong… the problem is that through our childhood experiences and trauma we’ve detached from pieces of our soul and we’ve disowned parts of ourselves. All of these aspects of our being lay in the shadow, they are our blind spots, and they hold precious information that we can’t see on our own because… they are our blind spots. By definition, we need someone else to mirror those to us.

What I know is that you are needed. I know that you are meant to be living a fulfilling joyful abundant life.  I know that if you aren’t living a life of joy and purpose and you feel stuck or simply blah, then now is the time for you to rise up and figure this out!

🔥 What is holding you back?
🔥 Why can’t you take action even though you are clear about what you want to do?
🔥 Why are you lacking motivation?
🔥 Why are you confused?
🔥 Why do you feel pulled in a million directions?

Let’s find clarity, shall we?

Love and light,

 

Valerie Shakti Bottazzi
Spiritual Teacher & Coach

Testimonial “Carol Bartomeo”

To have Valerie as a coach and healer was a unique experience that left me empowered.

When I started the coaching process, I was at a turning point in my life, in which I had been released from my job (I was a teacher for 25 years), I had just closed a 25-year-old relationship with my husband and I was starting a new phase in life with my two teen daughters. To begin with, I knew I had to focus on my life Mission but I didn’t have a clue on the “how to do it”. In addition, I also had to process some deep experiences concerning my fears as regards love and success. I felt I was at a loss.

A process with Valerie is not just any coaching process; it is a holistic experience in which she walks beside you and shares all her knowledge and tools for you to go deep inside you and feel reborn with all you need to stand by yourself. She is generous enough to share all the material she has developed, for you to nourish from it. She has so many tools to help you make the best of your healing journey that it is a fulfilled promise of your success in the end and you enjoy it as well.

She was always available when I needed extra help and she accompanied me a 100% in different ways: sending me supporting material, energy healing, channeling messages from my Guides, and much more in a loving, caring and safe atmosphere always protected by our Divine Teams. She helped me align and focus, state my goals with clarity and go for them step by step, letting me empower myself on the way and encouraging me to trust. “Your time now is like Indiana Jones”, she said. “Move one step at a time and trust that the path will show up”

At that moment, I remembered the movie: “Only the penitent man will pass. The penitent man kneels before God. The penitent man is humble before God.” I have done nothing wrong, that was clear. I had left guilt aside, with Vale’s help I cared for my inner child and I recognized I am worth loving. Thus, it was not fair to call me a “penitent” woman, as Indiana Jones said.

So I provided my own version: “Only the aligned woman will pass. The aligned woman kneels before her own path because she surrenders to its sacredness and trusts she is at the perfect place to evolve. The aligned woman is humble before herself, she is aware of her strength and goes for everything she deserves with vision, love and passion.”

Carol Bartomeo

Coach & Healer, Mano Azul

Praise by Marina Jackman

I had some unresolved feelings and wounds related to my past, my family, and especially myself. I was concerned because I didn’t think I was ready to explore those issues, and I didn’t think I had the extra money to invest in myself. However, I am very glad I said yes to Valerie’s coaching.

Through our time together Valerie helped me in establishing my life & career goals, she guided me as I overcame hopelessness & overwhelm getting me past some mental-blocks while gaining confidence working through my mindset. Valerie helped me get clear about who I am and what I want in life; she gave me useful tools that I can now use whenever I’m feeling helpless, lost, or frustrated and she further helped me understand why I was acting in a certain way helping me heal patterns so I could reset myself in a more positive and loving way.

Since I finished with Valerie’s program I feel more confident, I understand what I want and where I’m going with more clarity. I’m not scared of bad things happening because I understand that I have the power over my way of behaving and thinking. I am more than grateful and I now understand the power of manifesting what your soul really desires.

I particularly appreciated the possibility of speaking freely and not being judged at any point. I felt like I could speak without any restrictions and that helped the process become more authentic and significant.

The 3 biggest benefits of working with Valerie have been:

1) Being in a judgment free zone

2) Getting many tools to help me cope with the different issues/emotional blockages I now recognize and

3) Being able to revisit previous conversations

I would absolutely recommend working with Valerie. She is a warm and authentic person with many years of experience in different businesses and spiritual fields, which make her a holistic coach that can help you in many aspects of your life journey. No matter what you have going on, from business to inherited family traumas, she can see and feel beyond words and help you get to the bottom of what you are experiencing to heal those deep emotional scars. I did the 6-month program and it completely changed my life, now I have the tools to understand my behaviors, and modify them in a healthy, loving way. It’s not magic, it’s hard work, but having Valerie by your side to guide and help you get through your fears, frustrations and emotions is a wonderful experience.

Marina Jackman

Digital Project Manager