What exactly is a life purpose 🔥🔥🔥

What exactly is a life purpose?

So many times we use this term, we speak of finding it but, are we clear of what it would feel like and be like when we do?

There is a Harvard study published in May 2020 that says that we NEED a higher purpose in life to feel our lives have meaning AND that if you believe your life has meaning, it could potentially be longer.

There are actually countless clinical studies that show that having a “greater purpose” dramatically increases the length and quality of your life. Yet, it is alarming how many people at this time report that they don’t know what theirs is.

It does not matter how smart, conscious, creative, talented, and tuned in you are, if you are not clear about what you are meant to be doing now and why you are here on this planet at this time, you will be feeling off-kilter and you will go about life feeling like something is missing.

Life purpose is defined differently by different people, however, as a spiritual teacher, coach, and healer, I have learned that knowing your life purpose means you have aligned your passion with your dreams and your goals.

When your passion is in line with your dreams and goals then your behaviors and your actions will naturally be aligned with your values. As a result, you will feel on-purpose AND you will feel fulfilled with an inner knowing that what you do matters… that YOU matter.

I believe that living our purpose is ultimately connecting with our higher self or inner divinity and listening to its guidance you will gain clarity on all of the above.

What I find in my work is that many people are struggling to go inside, to honor time to connect with the whispers of the divine within, and thus can’t receive the golden messages for themselves. Your inner knowing speaks in a really soft voice, therefore, we must be able to quiet our minds to listen accurately.

Not knowing what your purpose is will have you going about life sabotaging your ability to unlock your full potential and manifest what you most desire in life!

So why is it so difficult to gain clarity on OUR OWN purpose? It’s ours so we should know right? Wrong… the problem is that through our childhood experiences and trauma we’ve detached from pieces of our soul and we’ve disowned parts of ourselves. All of these aspects of our being lay in the shadow, they are our blind spots, and they hold precious information that we can’t see on our own because… they are our blind spots. By definition, we need someone else to mirror those to us.

What I know is that you are needed. I know that you are meant to be living a fulfilling joyful abundant life.  I know that if you aren’t living a life of joy and purpose and you feel stuck or simply blah, then now is the time for you to rise up and figure this out!

🔥 What is holding you back?
🔥 Why can’t you take action even though you are clear about what you want to do?
🔥 Why are you lacking motivation?
🔥 Why are you confused?
🔥 Why do you feel pulled in a million directions?

Let’s find clarity, shall we?

Love and light,

 

Valerie Shakti Bottazzi
Spiritual Teacher & Coach

Are you giving up on love?

Have you ever wondered what the secret is to finding a quality partner and creating a sustainable, fulfilling love life? What is the secret to having healthy relationships in our lives?

I’m so excited to announce that I was just interviewed on the Midlife Love Out Loud podcast! Click here to listen

We spoke about healthy relationships:

❤️ What do they look like? 
❤️ Where do they start? 
❤️ How can you ensure you will live the best love story in your life? 
AND
❤️ How can you have a loving relationship with who you care about?

Let’s face it.  Being in the second half of life and getting “back out there” can feel daunting. 

With divorce rates skyrocketing and people feeling more dissatisfied in partnership than ever before, and being in midlife after multiple sucky relationships, one would think it isn’t possible to have a fulfilling relationship let alone find one so late in life. 

The good news is it’s more than possible and Midlife Love Out Loud: Your One Stop Love Shop, hosted by Junie Moon –the Love Coach, is a great resource for you!

The show is awesome and I’m so honored to be one of her guests! I invite you to browse throughout all the shows and listen to some them, they are fantastic, even for those of us who already have beautiful relationships, it’s never too much to be reminded of what works! 

Junie is bringing on some of the leading experts in the relationship field and offering tools that actually help you call in the partner you dream of. 

Be sure to subscribe, rate and review it too. That helps us get the word out there about this great show. 

Midlife Love Out Loud offers topics like:

●     How to have healthy communication and less drama
●     How to create bedroom bliss and get your needs met
●     How to date successfully online
●     How to find quality men that want to show up for you
●     How to experience real intimacy where you deeply connect and feel safe to be you
●     How to set healthy boundaries and not get resentful because you abandon your truth
And so much more… 

Junie Moon knows how hard it can be to find love later in life. She has walked in your shoes, and after extensive research, she now helps women find their man by teaching really easy, learnable tools that streamline the whole dating process. That’s why she is sharing the golden nuggets of dating and relationships in this new way…her podcast. 

I am so excited to share this with you. You’re going to learn a ton.  Enjoy! 

Valerie Shakti Bottazzi
Spiritual Teacher & Guide

Testimonial by D.P.

Valerie was and is a blessing in my life! She is an amazing medium, healer, coach and an incredible, compassionate non-judgmental person. She is REAL. She helped me heal many of my past issues in a short time. I know that the journey never ends but I definitely feel more powerful and blessed since we’ve worked together.

Especially powerful was the Shamanic Constellation session. She brought much information from my ancestors and my close family members and we cleared past pain originating with my ancestors. It was magical, so many souls came to speak with me through her, about current and past relationships. It was surreal. I felt so connected for days after the session and learned from some ancestors I hadn’t even met about their past and how they are linked through me. I was blessed by them and felt renewed and amazed to have been able to learn and listen to them. There were things Valerie transmitted that impressed me, since there was no way Valerie could have known those things had happened.

I feel grateful to have had this process as now I understand better where I come from and I feel clear and ready to start anew and to be guided by divine intervention.

I had never heard of this type of healing until she suggested it to me. I would definitely recommend it to anyone considering doing it. It’s a like a weight gets cleared out off your shoulders. I feel reborn and with a fresh new outlook of my past and my future.

We have worked via zoom and its incredible to know that energy flows and that you don’t need to be face to face to feel it in your soul and in your heart.

You do have to say YES and be open to hearing it all!

Thank you, Valerie, for being who you are, for your honesty, your love, your insight, your guidance, for being there for me and for the amazing coaching, tools, and healing you’ve given me in such a short time. I’ve been so blessed to have had the opportunity of working with you and that our paths crossed at the perfect time … Shine Bright!

D. P.

Missouri, USA, Mother and IT professional

Testimonial by Alāna Oceana

I want to share my reflections on the ancestral healing work that I did with Valerie at the beginning of this year. It took me a couple of months to process the results as I feel that the “upwelling” of information that the work we did presented was a big and beautiful experience that opened many doors that I am continuing to make strides through.

Working with you, Valerie, felt safe and I knew I was in good hands. After we did the Shamanic Constellation I had a lot of healing happen in my lineage. I felt like space opened up in my heart and chambers were availed during our session. It took me two months to clear the rooms and purge the emotional baggage stored in boxes, bags, and keepsakes. It was a lot and I am so happy that your intuition guided us through this process.

Since our time together so much has shifted within my family dynamics. You held such a powerful space for me to witness and create a new identity around the dialogue that I was holding with these individuals. There is something to be said about “giving back” what was not mine. I worked with that dialogue for many weeks as I felt thoughts purging. It is funny, even my skin is looking more bright and I am holding less water weight.

I have felt like I have been in a foreign land for much of this past couple of months as I open myself up to who I am, without the stories of the past that held me captive to the victim. I know that you have helped me tremendously see my own story through your compassion, patience, and incredible heart for love.

I am truly blessed and honored to walk this path with you. I feel like you have been such a gentle guide, nurturer, and supporter as I prepare to open myself up to sharing my story through written word. I am not sure I would be where I am today if it wasn’t for you to complement the work I have been doing also on my own.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart and the top of my tune for being an Angel in my life. I am so deeply grateful, moved, and in awe of your inspiring presence, strength, and courage.

Alāna Oceana

California, USA, BlueMind Transformation Coach + Speaker

Stop and smell the roses🌹

Everything in our world is interconnected with waves of energy that we can not see. The subtle bio-energy that flows through all living things, sometimes called chi or life force, can be measured in Hertz.

Choosing thoughts, words, actions, and tools to raise our frequency has been shown to create a positive impact in our lives assisting us in co-creating the life we desire. You may have learned from my videos how emotions that are negative are very low in frequency ranging from 0.2 Hz to 3 Hz on average while powerful emotions such as gratitude and love are above 90 Hz.

So why are roses one of the most popular flowers on Earth as symbols of love, passion, friendship, peace, femininity and more? Have you noticed how the rose flower is all over human lore and even well-known sayings? As in “stop and smell the roses”. It does not say “stop and smell the violets, or the lavender, or the daisies!”.

Let me tell you why. It’s because roses vibrate at the highest frequency, more than any other flower on Earth. Pure extracts from rose can measure as much as 5 times higher as those from her sister plants, like basil and peppermint. This means that it is vibrating on a super high level. And when we are exposed to it, our frequency can rise as well.

I don’t know about you, but I have ALWAYS loved roses. When I was in my late teens and early twenties, I loved using “Eau de Rose Perfume”. I guess my subconscious knew better than I did that when we are exposed to rose essence our frequency can rise as well.

I use to connect with the frequency of roses in many different ways when I perform guided meditations and healings. So you too can connect with it to raise your frequency, even without having it physically, just be evoking its image and perfume.

Other ways in which you can intentionally use this knowledge to help you raise your frequency:

💖 Drink rose-flavored teas.
💖 Create your own rose spray from rose petals and alcohol and spray it in your rooms and on upholstery
💖 Dry rose petals and use them in your ceremonies or to create a potpourri of roses
💖 Grow roses in your gardens and terraces.
💖 Keep roses around in your home
💖 Gift roses
💖 Use rose essential oil topically and in your bathwater.

Practice living to increase your vibrational frequency and use this new knowledge to support you in doing just that. Remember, if you need an energy boost “stop and smell the roses” it literally will enhance your frequency at the cellular level and help you bring you into balance and harmony.

Live intentionally and THINK ROSE!

Love and light!

 

Valerie Shakti Bottazzi
Shamanic Coach & Healer