Dream. Desire. Inspired Action.


If I think about it, I have always been a dreamer.
I dreamt of what I wanted until subtly and almost imperceptibly my dreams became desires.
It is at the point in which you have a burning desire that you start planning the actions steps to make this desire a reality.
Dream. Desire. Action.
This is the order in which we manifest our reality.
Source or the universe does not categorize things in good or bad and positive or negative ways, the universe has no judgment.  That is why when all we can think about is our debt or we are live in constant fear, that is what we vibrate as desire which attracts to us more of the same.

On the other hand, if we are wonderful at meditating and visualising but we do not take strategic action to ensure this desire get materialised, still we will not be able to manifest.
We actually have to put concerted “3 dimensional” efforts behind our dreams for them to come true.
And herein lies the important clue many of us are unaware of.  When I say we must take action, I mean to BE and to take inspired action. I do not mean to spring in a “Jack in the Box” style at every minute, running around like a “chicken with the head cutoff”…. Not at all….  

I mean we must EMBODY what we want to manifest, to feel it, to see it, to perceive it, and only then ensuring every action we take is coherent and in line with our integrity and goals.
It is actually simple, quite simple, but sometimes it doesn’t seem that easy to put into practice. Keep trying, keep adjusting your aim, keep at it, until you can enjoy your desired outcome!

Joyful Magic

It is time I have the courage to say it out loud….without fear of breaking the spell:

“I am joyful, deeply happy, at ease, living with grace exactly what I have been dreaming of, desiring and actively pursuing in manifestation.”

No, this does not mean life is “perfect” from a “checklist” standpoint. You know how society wants to know ….

♥ Love: check

♥ Sons: check

♥ Family: check

♥ Health: check

♥ Work: check…

It is not such thing, because for me in this moment it is not check check check…and herein lies the magic. It is not about the checklist.

It is about knowing my reason, knowing my why, knowing that I am living my purpose, that I am here through a lifetime of choices, whatever they might have been, without judging them good or bad….these choices have brought me here, to this date, with my joys and my pains.

And here I stand, now at 53 years old, waking up every morning so serene, at ease, loving, trusting and joyful that I surprise myself.

I now understand what it means to live in the magic, to expect magic as the logical consequence of trusting life TOTALLY.

I have experienced depression through hopelessness, shame, abuse and overwhelm when no solution seemed possible from my perspective.

I have endured anxiety attacks when fear was so strong it ate at my solar plexus and ripped my heart as I stood over the precipice knowing the only solution was to let go completely and I was not able to at the time.

I have sought all types of strategies… mostly doing. Doing was my drug, I “knew” that if I kept moving and doing things I was “in control”…. Nothing farther from the truth. I meditated, I wrote in my journal, I walked in nature, I did yoga, I took courses, I read books, I loved and I TRIED to trust and then I did some more…but fear won for a very long time…. And in the end, nearing the turning point, fear was so subtle it masked itself in all kind of tricky feelings or thoughts. Sneaky little thing, the ego tried to trip me at every step of the way.

I bucked and resisted, and tried to let go, and did and didn’t. I was not able to comprehend in the depths of my being the difference between doing and being. Being. Simply being. No other thing needed. It scared me to the core! The solution is so easy yet not simple to implement. Letting go COMPLETELY of control and in total trust just BE.

My why is that I yearn to help my soulful brothers and sisters to be able to do the same, to walk their own journey and put forth their unique dreams and their unique gifts. I know that this life of grace and ease is available to each on of us. The answer is truthfully at the other side of fear.

This is my reason. As I touch and live this space full of heart and purpose I yearn for you, and you and you … to be able to share this joyful space with me.

I have begged source to use me to be of service so that I can help you contact your joy, your deep profound reason for being here, in this body, in this reality, in this present moment.

Let me work with you so you can contact your joy, your deep soulful yearning full of hope and purpose.

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During your “Purpose Activation Session” you are going to get clear about what is stopping you from living a meaningful life with passion & purpose. You will walk away knowing the #1 action step you can take so you can  start living the life you dream of.

I wish you joy so you can shine bright!

Valerie Bottazzi

Life Coach & Healer