What? Energy doesn’t exist?


What? Energy doesn’t exist.

I am so sick of hearing this being played back at me every time I speak to my 19 year old about coaching and about the power we all have to create our own reality! 🙂

Argh…. But since I like challenges, I set myself to find a way in which to explain this concept in terms that everyone can understand it, using music as an example since my son is a musician….
Curious? I hope so!
We all live in a vibrational universe and we are vibrational beings whose cells and organs pulsate at a particular frequency. Our brain pulsates with electromagnetic energy affected by our emotions, our health and our general state of well being.
Our body contracts and pulses at various rates including the contraction of our stomach, our heartbeats and the rhythm of our breathing. Our whole body with each of its cells and organs forms a vibrational frequency, which is unique to us.
And I know “unfortunately” or “fortunately” from experience that when there is DIS-ease, depression or negative behaviour patterns it is because our bodies are “out of tune”.
Are you familiar with the physical concepts of “resonance” and “entrainment”? bear with me. Please read the definitions below in order to get a better understanding of my next point.

Resonance: Resonance is when one vibrating object causes another vibrating object with the same resonant frequency, to vibrate.

Entrainment: the principle of entrainment appears when a more powerful frequency causes a lower powerful frequency to be entrained by the more powerful one.



So to the point… have you ever been in a room where a guitar player has a second guitar sitting on a corner, and as he plays one instrument, the second guitar starts emitting similar sounds? That is resonance.

Our language has these concepts imbedded in it, think of these phrases for example: “I am in tune with a situation”, or “he and I are on the same wave-length”, to mention a few.

Therefore, the vibration we give off is met and reflected back to us, and it is easy to understand that  we cannot solve our problems by using the same kind of thoughts we had when we created them.

But why is this important? Because there is a way in which we can make a shift and raise our vibration to become powerful manifestors. Here is how.

There are specific and EASY things we can do to raise our vibration.  I invite you to watch my FREE Video “Become a powerful creator, 5 untold secrets to manifest the life of your dream.” Simply click here.

Here is a tip: You can tap into the principle of entrainment.Thankfully. Seek people and events that have a high frequency, such as meditation groups, dancing groups, walking in nature activities, and anything you are attracted to that you know has a high healthy vibration.

By the principle of entrainment you will be “pulled” into a higher vibrational frequency, and as you physically move your brain will start to create new habits and new pathways.

Isn’t it grand? Not only can we raise our vibration by actively doing any of my 5 tips to become a powerful creator.



But also by taking over new activities and surrounding yourself with new friends!

Don’t miss out and WATCH NOW this FREE webinar to learn 5 untold secrets to raise your vibration and start co-creating your reality.

Remember that if you are in your comfort zone you are going nowhere, you have got to move into your action zone.

Much love.

Valerie Bottazzi
Soulful Business Coach.

Don’t wait! The world needs you to shine bright!

Course Correct To Success

In my first job AFTER I came out of university as an Information Systems Analysis graduate, my boss repeatedly used to say “remember where we are coming from, where we are and where we are heading”. This was his moto to guide us into always keeping our path and our goals in mind so we could achieve them without doubt!

In those days I didn’t understand why he was saying that all the time. NOW I DO.

Everybody these days speak about manifesting and about the Law of Attraction. Don’t get me wrong, the Law of Attraction is a powerful, positive and important law, but it is not sufficient in itself to guarantee success.

Let me give you 3 things to bear in mind to stay on track as you embark in a life transformation journey.

  1. Determine your destination: Set clear and specific goals, write them down and make a plan to ensure you take one step at a time to know you are heading in the right direction day after day.
  1. Take the leap: You might have heard me say this often, just like Indiana Jones in the movie “Raiders of the Lost Ark”, you must take off toward your destination with no guarantee of success. Did you know that from the time they take off ALL airplanes are off course 99% of the time??? 99% of the time! And yet, life is just like an airplane ride and your role, just like the pilot’s role, is to continuously course correct. You must be willing to stay outside of your comfort zone as you stretch yourself into uncharted territory.
  1. Thus our very important third thing to keep in mind: YOU must resolve in advance that you will never give up because you will have to take risks knowing that sometimes you will succeed and others you won’t… but a battle doesn’t make war.  Continuing with the airplane example, just like any aircraft you will face headwind, storm fronts, lightning and unexpected turbulence for sure if you are in pursuit of a worthy goal.

So here is the point, we never have guaranteed success in anything we set ourselves to do but it is your ability to persist in the face of all adversity while heading in the direction of your goals what will ultimately guarantee your success. It is the tenacity and the ability to hold your vision what will pull you through the darkest of nights, which by the way, is the darkest precisely before dawn.

Much love always,
Shine bright!

Valerie Bottazzi
Soulful Business Coach

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Love Yourself First & Foremost

We are humans and as such we are NOT ALWAYS in tip top form. No matter if we are life coaches or business coaches, we have those down days too, like any human being that is showing up totally for their soulful purpose and also for all of those still trying to find out which one that is.

Today I am reaching out to you as a fellow traveler. As a woman to a woman and as a woman to a man and mostly as a healer.

My heart is heavy with the sorrow of those affected by the devastation of the Earth’s elements.... so far Air (hurricanes in Florida, Caribbean, and more), Earth (earthquakes in Mexico and not only) and Fire (damage to Italy and now Northern California and more).

I want to share with you my pain and the love that is vibrating from me to every fellow sentient being on earth right now, in these harsh circumstances. But there is a lesson in this devastation. The Earth, our beloved planet who hosts us in its most loving way, is shaking off all the bad that is clogged inside and out.

More than ever, each one of us has the mission to shine bright with our own unique gifts. We have the responsibility to rise up to the occasion and live up to the task we set for ourselves before choosing this time to be alive in the third dimension.

BUT MOST OF ALL, what we can ALL DO immediately, is connecting to the utmost compassion and love inside of us and FIRST AND FOREMOST give it to ourselves.

Love yourself, accept yourself and have compassion for yourself and from that wonderful space of light radiate these loving frequencies for everybody’s benefit. To sustain those living through hard times, to support those in the midst of their transformation process and to help heal all those in pain.

That is my message to you and for you today. MY LOVE IS HEADING your way and everyone’s way.
LOVE is the answer to every single question.

Much love.

Shine Bright!

Valerie Bottazzi

Soulful Business Coach