Are you giving up on love?

Have you ever wondered what the secret is to finding a quality partner and creating a sustainable, fulfilling love life? What is the secret to having healthy relationships in our lives?

I’m so excited to announce that I was just interviewed on the Midlife Love Out Loud podcast! Click here to listen

We spoke about healthy relationships:

❤️ What do they look like? 
❤️ Where do they start? 
❤️ How can you ensure you will live the best love story in your life? 
AND
❤️ How can you have a loving relationship with who you care about?

Let’s face it.  Being in the second half of life and getting “back out there” can feel daunting. 

With divorce rates skyrocketing and people feeling more dissatisfied in partnership than ever before, and being in midlife after multiple sucky relationships, one would think it isn’t possible to have a fulfilling relationship let alone find one so late in life. 

The good news is it’s more than possible and Midlife Love Out Loud: Your One Stop Love Shop, hosted by Junie Moon –the Love Coach, is a great resource for you!

The show is awesome and I’m so honored to be one of her guests! I invite you to browse throughout all the shows and listen to some them, they are fantastic, even for those of us who already have beautiful relationships, it’s never too much to be reminded of what works! 

Junie is bringing on some of the leading experts in the relationship field and offering tools that actually help you call in the partner you dream of. 

Be sure to subscribe, rate and review it too. That helps us get the word out there about this great show. 

Midlife Love Out Loud offers topics like:

●     How to have healthy communication and less drama
●     How to create bedroom bliss and get your needs met
●     How to date successfully online
●     How to find quality men that want to show up for you
●     How to experience real intimacy where you deeply connect and feel safe to be you
●     How to set healthy boundaries and not get resentful because you abandon your truth
And so much more… 

Junie Moon knows how hard it can be to find love later in life. She has walked in your shoes, and after extensive research, she now helps women find their man by teaching really easy, learnable tools that streamline the whole dating process. That’s why she is sharing the golden nuggets of dating and relationships in this new way…her podcast. 

I am so excited to share this with you. You’re going to learn a ton.  Enjoy! 

Valerie Shakti Bottazzi
Spiritual Teacher & Guide

You do you!

I was recently at the Women’s Leadership Conference in Las Vegas. I had 2 days to be among 1500 women and listen to a dozen women speak from stage.

I laughed, cried and was very inspired by each one of them in a different way.

Can you guess what was their common denominator?

AND

Do you know what was their underlying message regardless of how they chose to convey it?

You guessed right on both accounts. YOU GET TO BE YOU.

Each speaker was A-MA-ZING because they brought their authenticity, their vulnerability and their life experience with them. They spoke from their hearts sharing how their lives cracked them open and how they were able to stand up and make it big.

Most importantly, a common denominator is that at a point in time when they acted upon a certain event by following heart’s calling, as silly as it might have felt in the moment, ended up being a crucial event for their lives becoming their successful soulful path.

You may want to research them and follow them in social media. My favorites were Nely Galan, Mary Kelly, Stacey Nadeau, Patti DeNucci and Mimi Brown. They are sooo different from one another and yet, each one was magnetic sharing their message.

Think for one moment and answer for yourself: “What is holding me back?”.

You know the one and only task you must excell at is for YOU TO BE YOU. I love it when I hear it over and over told by so many spiritual masters and successful people. In order to succeed you don’t have to be or do more, you simply have to “remove” what is superfluous, what is not serving you. You’ve got to remove what is weighing you down, masks and false beliefs, to name a few.

I invite you to CLAIM YOUR purposeful life. You CAN have it all. Believe you can. There is truly nothing in the way other than what you THINK and BELIEVE you CAN or CANNOT DO. So which on is it going to be???

Claim your Purpose Activation Session and start today to create your best life.

You are being called to shine brighter!

YES!!!

Love and light

Valerie Shakti Bottazzi

Life Coach & Healer

Authenticity, living life being true to who you truly want to be.

 

Yes, I want my Purpose Activation Session

Love is the Answer

The Answer is Love!

 

Remember when John Lennon used to sing “love is the answer”?

I know, it is trite, and overused, BUT…. LOVE IS THE ANSWER TO ALL.

Think of this for a moment.

Whenever you feel down because somebody has hurt you, the way out is to give love back.

If you received envy and aggression, yup, you’ve got it, the way to heal YOUR wound is by sending love back.

When your heart has been broken, the way to mend your heart is loving the one who hurt you…

When someone, anyone, has done something that has left you feeling down and broken, the answer is…. Love. You’ve got this.

There is a caveat however and I am going to share this key aspect with you.

I learned from Boddhisatva Fukyo who lived more than 800 years ago a fundamental aspect of answering with love. Around the 1200ths when Buddhism was in a downfall period, people would be aggressive towards those following the Buddhist path to enlightenment. Whenever someone would speak ill of Fukyo, curse him or throw stones at him, he would move to the side to avoid the stones while leaning towards the aggressor, and hands in prayer he would say “I have profound reverence for you, I would never dare treat you with disparagement or arrogance, because I can see the Buddha within you.”

Isn’t this a beautiful anecdote? This story tugs at my heart because it explains very clearly that learning that love is the answer doesn’t mean to “turn the other cheek”. This is not about submission or loving when what you desire is to respond back with similar energies such as hate, revenge, spite or other responses.

Responding with love means protecting oneself from the aggression and the aggressor (as in moving to the side to avoid the stones) BUT understanding that we are all ONE, that we are all a vessel of Source energy. It is about healing ourselves and learning that loving back is the only way to freedom.

I love a good conversation and this subject might create strong opinions in you which I’d love to hear about. Please write to me any time. CLICK HERE to write to me!

Lots of love and light,

 

Valerie Bottazzi

Love Coach & Healer

Book a Purpose Activation Session Today!

 

“I believe that imagination is stronger than knowledge. That myth is more potent than history. That dreams are more powerful than facts. That hope always triumphs over experience. That laughter is the only cure for grief. And I believe that love is stronger than death.” [Robert Fulghum]

Testimonial “Carol Bartomeo”

To have Valerie as a coach and healer was a unique experience that left me empowered.

When I started the coaching process, I was at a turning point in my life, in which I had been released from my job (I was a teacher for 25 years), I had just closed a 25-year-old relationship with my husband and I was starting a new phase in life with my two teen daughters. To begin with, I knew I had to focus on my life Mission but I didn’t have a clue on the “how to do it”. In addition, I also had to process some deep experiences concerning my fears as regards love and success. I felt I was at a loss.

A process with Valerie is not just any coaching process; it is a holistic experience in which she walks beside you and shares all her knowledge and tools for you to go deep inside you and feel reborn with all you need to stand by yourself. She is generous enough to share all the material she has developed, for you to nourish from it. She has so many tools to help you make the best of your healing journey that it is a fulfilled promise of your success in the end and you enjoy it as well.

She was always available when I needed extra help and she accompanied me a 100% in different ways: sending me supporting material, energy healing, channeling messages from my Guides, and much more in a loving, caring and safe atmosphere always protected by our Divine Teams. She helped me align and focus, state my goals with clarity and go for them step by step, letting me empower myself on the way and encouraging me to trust. “Your time now is like Indiana Jones”, she said. “Move one step at a time and trust that the path will show up”

At that moment, I remembered the movie: “Only the penitent man will pass. The penitent man kneels before God. The penitent man is humble before God.” I have done nothing wrong, that was clear. I had left guilt aside, with Vale’s help I cared for my inner child and I recognized I am worth loving. Thus, it was not fair to call me a “penitent” woman, as Indiana Jones said.

So I provided my own version: “Only the aligned woman will pass. The aligned woman kneels before her own path because she surrenders to its sacredness and trusts she is at the perfect place to evolve. The aligned woman is humble before herself, she is aware of her strength and goes for everything she deserves with vision, love and passion.”

Carol Bartomeo

Coach & Healer, Mano Azul

Praise by Marina Jackman

I had some unresolved feelings and wounds related to my past, my family, and especially myself. I was concerned because I didn’t think I was ready to explore those issues, and I didn’t think I had the extra money to invest in myself. However, I am very glad I said yes to Valerie’s coaching.

Through our time together Valerie helped me in establishing my life & career goals, she guided me as I overcame hopelessness & overwhelm getting me past some mental-blocks while gaining confidence working through my mindset. Valerie helped me get clear about who I am and what I want in life; she gave me useful tools that I can now use whenever I’m feeling helpless, lost, or frustrated and she further helped me understand why I was acting in a certain way helping me heal patterns so I could reset myself in a more positive and loving way.

Since I finished with Valerie’s program I feel more confident, I understand what I want and where I’m going with more clarity. I’m not scared of bad things happening because I understand that I have the power over my way of behaving and thinking. I am more than grateful and I now understand the power of manifesting what your soul really desires.

I particularly appreciated the possibility of speaking freely and not being judged at any point. I felt like I could speak without any restrictions and that helped the process become more authentic and significant.

The 3 biggest benefits of working with Valerie have been:

1) Being in a judgment free zone

2) Getting many tools to help me cope with the different issues/emotional blockages I now recognize and

3) Being able to revisit previous conversations

I would absolutely recommend working with Valerie. She is a warm and authentic person with many years of experience in different businesses and spiritual fields, which make her a holistic coach that can help you in many aspects of your life journey. No matter what you have going on, from business to inherited family traumas, she can see and feel beyond words and help you get to the bottom of what you are experiencing to heal those deep emotional scars. I did the 6-month program and it completely changed my life, now I have the tools to understand my behaviors, and modify them in a healthy, loving way. It’s not magic, it’s hard work, but having Valerie by your side to guide and help you get through your fears, frustrations and emotions is a wonderful experience.

Marina Jackman

Digital Project Manager

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