How to open up to unconditional LOVE?

It is time for a “love upgrade”.

No matter how good you have it or how you wish you had love in your life, today I want to remind you to open up to unconditional love.

Allow yourself to overflow with unconditional divine love allowing others that are supportive in your life into your heart more and more. Unconditional love is at the core of the heart chakra, and as you expand in love it becomes a love portal.

The heart is capable of giving to yourself and others abundantly while also being able to receive freely, and both, giving and receiving can’t exist without one and the other.

 

 

Today is the perfect day for you to up-level your self-love. It is time to truly love yourself, fully and completely from the highest levels of honor and purity, so you can prepare for an expansive “love upgrade” as you attract what you give yourself.

Be open and receptive to love and loving from your unique self and soul to and from others and brace yourself, because the journey you will embark on is one of endless love and fulfillment beyond limitations!

Love and light!

Shine bright!

Valerie Shakti Bottazzi
Love Coach & Healer
PS: Are you ready to expand your capacity to give and receive love? If your heart and soul are saying YES then book a “Love Breakthrough” call. It is free and it is a diagnostic call where we will explore the things that are holding you back from self-love and true love. 

“The only way love can last a lifetime is if it’s unconditional. The truth is this: love is not determined by the one being loved but rather by the one choosing to love.” [Stephen Kendrick]

5 Steps to Fire Up your relationship

 

I hear many of my clients share with me their deep suffering because they love a partner so completely that they give and have given them their all…without getting what they need and desire in return.

Yes, they suffer because their partner doesn’t reciprocate; on the contrary, they keep taking, and asking for more and taking more, leaving them depleted, hurt and addicted to hope.

Let’s look at this situation from a new perspective and give you some empowering tools to dive deep into this pain and turn it aroundI invite you to journal and dialogue with your partner following these 5 steps.

STEP 1: Ask yourself the following questions

·     Am I standing in my Queenly power, fully and completely?
·     Am I in love with MYSELF fully and completely?
·     Do I accept and love myself first and foremost?

Once you know the answer to these questions do your inner work to make sure the answers are YES for every single one. Journal, write your own mantras, do the work!

STEP 2: Clarity (Clarity is always in there somehow isn’t it?)

Ask yourself what do you want from your partner?

·     Physical presence
·     Love
·     Seeing you
·     Being in his/her power
·     Supporting you in your power
·     ……..   complete your own list here

STEP 3: Love your partner enough to guide them into their inner inquiry

·     Does your partner have a sense of self?
·     Does he/she knows what they want from their life?

As a Queen, it is your task to guide your partner into self-inquiry with direct, clear and open communication

STEP 4: Acceptance and understanding

Acknowledge the dynamic that is going on here and practice presence.
Take action based on what new information comes up.

* Does the relationship need nurturing?
* Do you need to ask for what you want in a clear way?
* Do you need to stand in your power?
* What is needed to bring on joyful communication and light up the fire of love?

STEP 5: Closing empowering question

If you realize that your partner does not want, or is not ready to change his or her ways, you must ask yourself a courageous question:

What are you doing with a man or woman that is not fully available for you?

I am aware that following these 5 steps is not necessarily easy. It is my task to guide you on an inner journey of self-discovery to live the best version of your life. This is why if this message resonates with you, I invite you to book a free “Breakthrough to Love” call with me. Together we will explore what is keeping you from expressing your inner feminine essence so you can come away knowing the #1 thing you can do to start transforming your love life today.

BOOK YOUR CALL NOW

Love and light.

Shine bright!

Valerie Bottazzi
Love & Success Coach
 

“Love loves to love love.” 

Mind over Matter

 

How many times do you catch your mind self-talk being very mean to you?

Carl Jung said that “Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate”.

I find this concept extremely powerful because it has been one of the latest things I finally managed to transform…. well let’s be honest, I am still working at it, and the journey never ends! 

I have been aware for YEARS about how mean our ego can be talking back to us, mine certainly was. I used to listen to my mind talk to me like I would never dare speak to anyone else: mean as it can be. 

Catching our mental dialogue and recognizing it for what it is, a self-inflicted painful judgment is the first step into being able to make a shift for the better.

Those things our mind talk to us about are always our biggest pain points. 

For example:

* You are worthless
* You will never amount to anything
* You are fat
* You are ugly
* Look at your body, those flabby legs, that tummy, etc
* Why would he ever love me
* I will never be able to come out of this situation 
…..

Complete with the above list with the many that are going around!  

The steps you may take to transform this vicious circle are:

#1 Becoming aware that it happens
#2 Catch yourself when it starts 
#3 Making the conscious decision of making the shift
#4 Switch the mental statement into a positive mantra

Here are some examples:   

Instead of “you will never amount to anything” right there and then say “I am worthy beyond description”

Instead of “why would he ever love me” replace it in the moment with “I am lovable” and/or “I am worthy of love”

Instead of “I will never be able to come out of this situation” say to yourself “Wellbeing is always coming to me” or relating to finances you may say “Abundance is outrageous and pervasive and flowing to me now”.

 

 

You get the point. Now make a conscious effort to transform those things that make you suffer. Raise your vibration daily and start sending great energy to the Universe which I can guarantee you, will mirror back to you as you build enough momentum. 

Enjoy your weekend! 

Love and light. 
Shine bright!


Valerie Bottazzi
Love & Success Coach


“Who looks outside dreams. Who looks inside awakes.” [Carl Jung]