Testimonial “Carol Bartomeo”

To have Valerie as a coach and healer was a unique experience that left me empowered.

When I started the coaching process, I was at a turning point in my life, in which I had been released from my job (I was a teacher for 25 years), I had just closed a 25-year-old relationship with my husband and I was starting a new phase in life with my two teen daughters. To begin with, I knew I had to focus on my life Mission but I didn’t have a clue on the “how to do it”. In addition, I also had to process some deep experiences concerning my fears as regards love and success. I felt I was at a loss.

A process with Valerie is not just any coaching process; it is a holistic experience in which she walks beside you and shares all her knowledge and tools for you to go deep inside you and feel reborn with all you need to stand by yourself. She is generous enough to share all the material she has developed, for you to nourish from it. She has so many tools to help you make the best of your healing journey that it is a fulfilled promise of your success in the end and you enjoy it as well.

She was always available when I needed extra help and she accompanied me a 100% in different ways: sending me supporting material, energy healing, channeling messages from my Guides, and much more in a loving, caring and safe atmosphere always protected by our Divine Teams. She helped me align and focus, state my goals with clarity and go for them step by step, letting me empower myself on the way and encouraging me to trust. “Your time now is like Indiana Jones”, she said. “Move one step at a time and trust that the path will show up”

At that moment, I remembered the movie: “Only the penitent man will pass. The penitent man kneels before God. The penitent man is humble before God.” I have done nothing wrong, that was clear. I had left guilt aside, with Vale’s help I cared for my inner child and I recognized I am worth loving. Thus, it was not fair to call me a “penitent” woman, as Indiana Jones said.

So I provided my own version: “Only the aligned woman will pass. The aligned woman kneels before her own path because she surrenders to its sacredness and trusts she is at the perfect place to evolve. The aligned woman is humble before herself, she is aware of her strength and goes for everything she deserves with vision, love and passion.”

Carol Bartomeo

Coach & Healer, Mano Azul

What is your biggest “hunger”?

What is your biggest hunger telling you?

What is that fire burning inside? Are you listening?

Are you yearning for love and connection? Then let’s do something about this! Let’s go for it! What are you waiting for?

Stop playing the victim.
Stop playing small.
Stop staying in hiding.
Stop pretending you are a fragile doll.
Stop HURTING.

What is it costing you to stay in a place of hiding, hurt and fragile?

Are you ready to take the leap and go for passion? Embrace your power? And truly open up to true love?

I guide women to get ready for love again, and you know what? I love what I do, but I realize it is not only a one on one job. The more of us, women, that connect with LOVE, with our gifts, and are ready to love, the more we can guide our men into the energy of true love.

With our sacred feminine love, we can guide and help men connect with their sacred masculine and heal old karmic wounds freeing them as well to live more balanced lives and allowing their emotions to have a large space in their lives.

I believe that both as women and as men, as we connect with love and get ready for love, we truly impact the world. It sounds like big words, but they are not. It is as simple as the imagery of a drop in the ocean. Yes, a drop is small, but there would be no ocean without drops. The same is true for a grain of sand in a desert.

Love and light!

Valerie Shakti Bottazzi

Love Coach & Healer

Have you given to get?

I want to point out a quote from “A Course In Miracles” and take it from there: [“Giving to get” is an inescapable law of the ego, which always evaluates itself in relation to other egos.]

The reason why I am bringing this up is that often times when we are hurt and can’t seem to find our true love, what is going in on is that we have a belief, often times subconscious, that we don’t deserve to receive. We have an automated re-action pattern by which we give too much; we are givers to the extreme of only allowing ourselves to receive if we have “given enough”.

Look back into your life and your dynamics and evaluate how many times did you allow yourself to receive and it what context? Take the most honest stock, looking at “what is”, is step number 1 to be able to transform it, if we wish to.

You may find out that in your relationships as a daughter, son, mother, wife, ex-wife, partner, friend… you have a pattern of giving too much. If this is the case you might have had rifts in many relationships because the dynamic has had you giving to the point of getting really depleted and even resentful for it.

The truth is that you deserve to receive as much as you give and give as much as you receive, AND receive for no reason. Giving and receiving is the breath of love. One cannot exist without the other and, our love center (the heart chakra) is balanced when our flow of giving and receiving is fluent, harmonious and balanced.

Remember you are worthy simply because you are and I may add, “worthiness” is a choice. 

The difficulty is that our “old stories” run our show, and our ego’s compulsion to be accepted and loved does not leave us free to choose.  Tricky isn’t it? BUT you can always choose to heal and write your “new story”, fresh and vibrant. What is YOUR choice?

Love and brilliance,

Valerie Bottazzi

Love Coach & Healer

6 Powerful LOVE Affirmations

I am a firm believer in the power of mindset work, mindfulness, affirmations, and mantras to support our manifestation and transformation. Rewiring our brains to transform our beliefs is one of the many ways in which we influence our co-creation.

Prior to going to the hospital for my surgery, I did a lot of mindset work connecting with my body, preparing mind and body for the surgery, so the body could be ready to receive and accept the prosthesis and everything that came with the surgery. I did a lot of affirmations about it all of it being okay.

And it has been!

I have used affirmations successfully in my life to “re-wire” my mind on many beliefs I wanted to transform. Today I am sharing with you a few LOVE mantras so you can transform your beliefs about love.

Enjoy them!

The point is to say them out loud many times a day, to write them in your journals, to feel them and embody them often for at least 100 days.

  •  I am open and receptive to all the love life offers me. I love this mantra as a starting point because it is an invitation for love to come into your life. You are informing the Universe that you are ready to and open to “receive”.
  • I am surrounded by love. What you focus on is what you get more of. With this affirmation you ensure you focus on what you HAVE versus what you don’t have..
  • I deserve love. Too often we sell ourselves short believe we don’t deserve what is coming or even what we have because of profound traumas that have us believing we are “unworthy”.
  •  I live an abundant life. Abundant life as in everything! Love, relationships, family, health, wealth.
  • My dreams are coming true. Dream, desire, set goals and ACT upon them. If you are taking inspired action then this more than an affirmation is reinforcing a fact.
  • Thank you. Gratitude is a big door opener for everything we want to manifest and more so with love. Always add thank you for …. adding the things you DO have and you are grateful for. Thank life, thank the people in your life, thank YOURSELF!

Lots of love and light!

Valerie Bottazzi

Love Coach & Healer

Testimonial by Viviana Giambruni

First of all, I want to emphasize the deep and professional dedication of your work.

I have said it before and I repeat it now, I was pleasantly surprised by the focus of your work, since it is not a usual coaching approach, but much more and deeply healing in different aspects. During our time together I was surprised several times, especially in the incredible online meetings via Zoom, in which the connection was as strong as if we would have been face to face in the same room.

The whole journey was a blend of energetic work and coaching creating as a result, a deep healing with very powerful encounter, each one of them, heightened by each meditation that you generously offered when the sessions called for it.

I have unforgettable moments from this journey thanks to the deep healing that happened at all levels of my being.

In my humble opinion, your incredible abilities are not properly promoted. I never imagined I would have received so much at so many levels throughout these 12 beautiful weekly sessions.

In addition, I always felt accompanied during the week by each module while integrating the energies generated in our online encounters.

In short, a very committed and deep professional work, which I have not enough words to thank you for! I highly recommend the coaching system in the unique style of Valerie Bottazzi.

 

Viviana Giambruni

Architect, Viviana Giambruni Architect